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Failures from Jealousy in Life and Business
Failures from Jealousy in Life and Business
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Jealousy is defined as: the state or feeling of being jealous. Other words used for jealousy are envy and resentment

Jealousy can be fueled from: mistrust, insecurities and anxiety

What is jealousy? What causes jealousy? How can jealousy affect our daily lives and our ability to be successful? How has it affected you personally or professionally already?

Jealousy often stems from a feeling that we are lacking or less than something within us or around us. We see someone with more than us or someone who appears happier than us and we get an emotion of jealousy. A desire to have something we lack or be like someone else. Emotions are OK and normal but we must rise above them to be successful in life and business. Rising above the emotions requires an understanding of why we are feeling how we feel.

There is no room for jealousy in life or business. If we want to be the best version of ourselves and succeed in reaching our dreams we must only dwell on positive emotions. Emotions like love for ourselves and others, belief in ourselves or others and belief we are deserving and can succeed in having more or being more than what we are in the present time. There will be no room for jealousy if your attention switches from wishing you had or were, to being who you are and creating the life you want.

Here are some steps to help us focus on what we want instead of being jealous of what we do not have right now:

1: Breaking down old belief systems.

You are beautiful the way you are. We are not supposed to look the same and be the same. You can be successful but your success will not always look like someone else’s, it needs to be yours.

Just because you may be the first in your family to desire what you desire or do what it is you want to do doesn’t mean you can’t do it. Nothing was ever done until it was done. There will always need to be a first. Don’t let that stop you. Believing that you can be successful and are deserving of it helps you gain confidence in yourself and out of old beliefs. If you are too busy being jealous of others you will never take the time to discover your own beauty and what you should offer the world in life and business.

2: Formulate a clear image of what you want by understanding what it is you are jealous of.

We are jealous of what we feel we need or are not as good as. But unless it’s the life meant for you exactly the way God wanted you to live it and be you in it, then what can you really be jealous of? This leaves room for us to be jealous of everything and completely unaware of anything. You must know what is it exactly you are jealous of and apply that to a plan on how to get what it is you feel is lacking. What do you want to do or be and when would you like to do it? Find help or resources from others. Instead of being jealous of the people who “have” ask those people how they got there, get their help. Figure out if you might have to move or work for a while to make the funds first. What type of education or training is needed? Understand the meaning of success and what that looks like to you. Understand your success may not look like someone’s else and nor does it have to. Everything you need is within you if you can listen to the knowing inside of you. Once you have clear vision and have researched what it will take to achieve what you want to do or be then, you are ready for step 3.

3: Do the work. Create an action plan. Be open for help FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE as we are always learning.

You know what you want now start planning. Set goals to keep you focused. Timelines, resources, locations, etc… Be specific!

You will always need people around you in life to be successful. Co-workers, colleagues, family members, friends, etc. Jealousy pushes those people we need away rather intentionally or unintentionally.
It takes time and patience. It’s not often handed to us so knowing that leaves little room for jealousy since you will then understand each successful person before you did the above steps. They may have even started where you did or had someone before them that succeeded and helped them get there. There is no reason to be jealous if it is no longer something you feel you can’t have or be. Jealousy comes from feeling unfulfilled within, wanting something we don’t have or thinking you can’t have it or are not deserving of it. If we focus on ourselves, how we can be the best version of us then we will be too busy working on ourselves and our goals to be jealous of others. One day someone will be where you are and need your help so there’s no room for jealousy. We must want others to be successful so there is an example to follow so that we too may be successful when searching, working and trying to create the life we want.

Endless Road

Endless Road

You must always feel your way through life, if it doesn’t feel right then it’s probably not for you. Be okay being unique, not everyone needs to be the same or do the same. Find your own truths/beliefs that you can lean on when things get hard. Things you can remind yourself of to keeping going.

BIG TAKE AWAY SUMMARY:

Jealousy is simply an emotion that we are in control of. It does not have to control us!

Without jealousy we can feel worthier, have more self-respect and create the lives we want.

Eliminating jealousy requires effort and understanding of exactly what we are jealous of. We can process this by:

-letting go of old beliefs of ourselves and our limitations

-defining what we want and having our own vision for the future

-doing the work/having a plan to achieve our goals leading to the future we want

Paige

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About 6000 miles and 14 states!! It’s great to be back…HOME…Colorado
About 6000 miles and 14 states!! It’s great to be back…HOME…Colorado
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Traveling with my family over the summer is always great. Packing up the car and making memories with all the wonderful heartbeats along for the ride whether 2 legs or 4. I look at my kids and see the anticipation of what each trip will bring as we are off for adventures while seeking to spend time with loved ones out of state. Taking the time, making the memories and seeing what Spirit has in store is the story of our lives. This summer I was blessed to see some beautiful souls and journeyed in the Spiritual realms as much as I did the physical. Every trip leads to more questions and yet more answers also as to what the end of the year will bring and what new projects I need to begin or finish. We collected precious items we lost along the way from last year’s trip and definitely gained more in spirit than we could have possibly given out. This year’s trip was very symbolic for gathering lost pieces so to be fulfilled and complete.

Riding shotgun somewhere through Louisiana, Missouri and Kansas I was able to do some awesome Shamanic journeying. Spirit set me up for some great endeavors ahead while validating what I was already feeling. (I can’t wait to share it all soon as things come to the surface). The most important message I got is how grounding the red clay dirt of the Carolinas is for me. In honoring the 4 directions I always thank the Spirits of the South for giving me roots and nourishment but when my feet actually get to touch down in the heartland I feel the energy I am always showing gratitude for. Born and raised in South Carolina its energy is always within.

This trip as all of them do created great memories. From the dead heat of Texas to the lakes of the Carolinas and all that’s in between we made it back to Colorado with more than we left with. Connections to others is what it is all about. Sacrifice of time and money opens the doors to success if you focus on what feels right and do it!

So I will always remember to take time for family and traveling across country because coming back I am always renewed and ready to start the next leg of the marathon that is my crazy life. ITS ON NOW!!!

Paige

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Just keep climbing, just keep climbing, just keep climbing… Where do we go from here? Vision Boards and more…
Just keep climbing, just keep climbing, just keep climbing… Where do we go from here? Vision Boards and more…
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Endless Road

Endless Road

It’s easy to have a vision. It’s easy to consider in moments of emotion what we would rather be doing, feeling or accomplishing. But it’s the daily pursuit of those things which we wish to create as reality that is the key to fulfillment.

Holding the vision while trusting the process is the hardest, most disciplined act of faith.

It’s when the universe brings you to a place of discontentment and longing for more that you should realize you’re closer to the destined path that ever. The moment you look up from the bottom of the barrel

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to see the light, the vision ahead, but have no clear direction on how the hell you will make the climb to grasp it, is when one must trust the process. You will choose to see the climb as a deterrent and stay at the bottom of the barrel of dissatisfaction or you can decide to start climbing up despite having no clue where you may be going.

You won’t always know where you are or why you are experiencing events that seem to not mesh with your vision. You will take left turns instead of “right” ones but as long as you keep moving, climbing to the top it will not matter how you got there once you wake up living your vision.

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wooden barrel

Moving forward with enough love to accept hiccups, compassion for yourself in setbacks and strength in determination to achieve your vision will allow you to stay connected to the Divine source along the way. This will allow you to pull guidance from the God energies and have a connection enough to continue to trust the process in moments when you feel discouraged. Never ever forget your vision and despite making alterations always have tunnel vision towards the prize. Know that you will manifest your vision despite the process if you always keep moving. In this moment you may not know how you will get there or where to go from here but just keeping climbing.

WITHOUT A VISION ONE WILL REMAIN LOST!!!Purpose - Bunch of Keys with Text on Golden Keychain.

 

Tips for attaining your vision:

-Create a Vision Board! Don’t wait, do it today. Do it the moment you feel a desire to achieve something! This allows you to have a tangible image of your vision to hold on to when enduring the climb.

-Meditate daily on how to manifest your vision!

-Take time to recharge from the climb. When feeling overwhelmed or discouraged take a time out and do something that replenishes your soul and gives you strength to keep going. Get away, go on vacation or take a break from daily routines.

-Find humor in the struggle. Spirit knows we will achieve our destiny and that is why some feel like God is often laughing at our way of making minor situations feel major. We are the ones who constantly need convincing.  Always climb while seeing the big picture so that you can laugh at all the craziness along the way instead of getting lost in misery.

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Book Release – Sale begins today
Book Release – Sale begins today
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***Sale Event for my book***

“My Spiritual Journal of Guided Meditations” by Paige

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Sale now – shipping Labor Day weekend!

About Book:
The source of our power is within us. As we take time to daily commune with Spirit, disconnect from negative energy forces and ground ourselves in Mother Earth we gain access to the Divine. Meditation is just one source we can use to tap into this amazing life force that has the ability to transform and recreate the lives we were meant to lead.

“My Spiritual Journal of Guided Meditations” can open the door for you to release, endure and embrace all that you are meant to learn along your journey in this life. The meditations will enlighten you and give you courage to face and conquer situations that often leave us discouraged. You will meet Spirit Guides, connect with the other side and gain a clearer understanding of energy and how it affects us on a much deeper level than we are aware. You will be led to let go of past life restraints and negative energy cords that leave our soul cloudy and blocked from the Divine. By the completion of this book you will embody a lighter soul with a clearer understanding of your purpose in life.

Not only will you be guided through the meditations with the audio that is included but you will have the opportunity after each meditation to answer questions and create your own artistic piece of work. This will help you to remember every detail of the experience for later reflection. When you are finished, you will have created YOUR own spiritual journal to cherish and gain insight from for years to come. This book will become sacred to you for accessing spiritual knowledge you personally discovered throughout the completion of each meditation.

As you open the pages of this book you will feel the Divine influence of its creation. From beginning to end, this book consists of 13 channeled meditations directly shown to the author in dreams or visions. Not only will the descriptive writing attract you but the custom audio included has an energy that will pull you into and guide you through the meditations with ease whether you are beginning or seasoned in the practice of meditation.

Full selling Price: $26.00 BUT if purchased before August 15th, receive over 27% off!

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Sale Price: $26.00

Books will be shipped out the first week of September 2015 for all presale orders.

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Faith needs Patience in the Face of Uncertainty
Faith needs Patience in the Face of Uncertainty
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Faith needs Patience in the Face of Uncertainty
It is so easy to tell others to have faith in unknown circumstances. People label the worst case scenarios of needing faith as using blind faith in the times of highest distress. Blind faith, regular faith, whatever you want to label it, faith has no standing without patience. Faith is believing in that which you cannot see or understand or even fathom a favorable outcome from. Faith is easy when not a lot is at stake but it is in times of greatest turmoil with no end in sight that you need the most patience in order to gather the strength you need to gain faith or hold onto it.

Symbolism of this to me can be described by the following:FB_IMG_1423347446708

I picture myself in life much like I am standing waist deep in the ocean. I chose to walk into the ocean (life) and no matter what happens I am going to consciously choose to let it lead me on the journey I am intended to complete. In life I can feel energy all around me, like waves of the ocean rolling in and out. I know the ocean will not always be calm. I rest in the peacefulness of the moments of calm and try to ground myself in times when it is not. I can take what beats against me for a while no matter how strong or high the waves become. I can have faith as I stand there that my legs will support me despite my feet feeling unsteady at times from the strain of the waves crashing against me. Determination to not be defeated can lift me up out of the water when the waves pull me under but what truly allows me to continue to stand in the ocean and not walk away to shore is patience. Without patience and the belief that I have a reason/purpose in standing amidst the crashing waves, I would easily retreat to a safer place (shore or the past) and not push through the experience in order to gain insight and growth.

The times I have been most upset with humanity is when I have been squawked at to “just have faith.” To me it often came as a copout to taking the time to actually examine my situation and want to get give love led advice. I am a person of faith. I believe in it and live a life that more often than not forces me to have faith to function. But I never have been able to wrap my head around the ideals of faith. I mean how long do you have faith in a situation before aborting it and seeking a different outcome? How many times when faced with uncertainty where faith seemed to have failed, do you stop to examine your role in the situation for causing a difference in the results you aimed for? Once I began to face my internal battle with faith surrounding questions much like above I recognized for me that it all led back to patience or the lack of in my case. Anyone can have faith for a little while but what happens when a situation you are putting tremendous faith into seems to be at a halt? YOU PRACTICE PATIENCE! Or try to start learning it at least. 🙂

You see, I believe patience gives you the endurance to stand in your faith which in turn allows you more clarity and connection to your intuition for seeing obstacles and outcomes. Faith alone can be lonely in the midst of waves crashing against you and dragging you under time and time again. But faith coming from a place of extreme patience allows you to keep striving, pushing on, believing and getting back up instead of doubting if your faith is misplaced.

Faith is cultivated through trials…Patience must be practiced in order to obtain…One without the other their potential is VOID… -Paige Land

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Mindfulness vs Meditation
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Mindfulness vs Meditation

How do we stay centered and grounded as busy mommies?

So you first wake up to the sound of animals yelping for food or alarm clocks ringing. You drag yourself out of bed only to be met by kids exiting their rooms as if they were lying in wait to pounce on you. Before you can get upstairs to make breakfast you are met with questions like, why is the color blue not called purple or comments such as because you made me eat my green beans last night I had a dream that an elephant sat on me. Explain this to me mommy, please, please, please….Meanwhile in the middle of trying to make breakfast the baby starts crying because the older siblings of course thought she had slept for too long and your toddler is taking off her diaper, proceeding to potty in the floor, while your 6 yr. old is simultaneously doing jumping jacks on the couch and throwing airplanes at his sisters head. But wait it’s not over yet, its only 7:30 am and you still have to get them off to school, find time to shower (yeah right, lol) all while your phone is dinging with text messages and reminders of all the wonderfulness of life you must achieve today. Whether staying at home with screaming babies or off to work to face demands of a boss who has no idea the mountains you defeated prior to clocking in at 8:30am, we all face some version of this day. It’s either cleaning or quotas that haunt us and let’s not forget bedtime drama that always lies ahead at the end of each day.   Ahhhhh…. Sound familiar?

This is just a brief summary of what I think most of us experience daily as mommies and women as a whole. Somehow at the end of each day we may have achieved something for ourselves, a quiet second, quick meal or for the real prize winners a condensed workout. Regardless, most likely it was still all done under distress. This is just what we do as mommies whether single or married. The demands are the same although support systems may be different. Recognition is seldom given and yet we still pick up the pieces and start over again each day. We may feel successful for surviving it but as women, mommies, partners and any other title we hold, we weren’t meant to just survive. WE are meant to thrive, especially in achieving what we came to this life for. Our titles are just a small part of the soul contract we signed up for. Titles and lessons learned from them develop you but should not envelop all of who you are. This my friends is when we must recognize that the strength to push through comes from a higher source and that source must be fed. So how exactly do we achieve that needed connectedness?

So you have no time for yourself already and now the idea of connecting to Spirit seems like just another task on your to do list. This is where mindfulness over meditation comes to life. Our greatest connection to the life source/Spirit is through communion and communication. Acknowledgment and gratitude on a daily basis will create habits of connectedness with Spirit that will outlast any other relationship or support system and develop a connection that saves your life in distressed moments, sometimes literally!

So what is mindfulness? When you hear meditation that’s easy. You may think of yoga or traditional images of meditation. There are millions of options for creating your own meditation space or experiencing guided meditations.  There are multiple opinions of how one should meditate. But what happens when you can’t find the time to try any of these options? You either continually push the idea aside thus never connecting to Spirit and having your life source drained daily or…… You learn MINDFULNESS.

 

Mindfulness is simple. It is about finding moments in the chaos to recognize Spirit. It is about clearing your mind, even for a moment on a daily basis to connect to Spirit. It about recognizing activities you do already where you can take time to acknowledge Spirit and show gratitude for what is around you. Mindfulness can help create an awareness of what you are blessed with and desire/drive to learn more about where you are going or who you were created to be.  Through mindfulness you will be more equipped to manifest what you desire and get the results you want for your life. Because mindfulness can be achieved through multitasking it may not be for all of us. Some of us may require the traditional, quiet, solitude of meditation. That is great! Find what works for you but more importantly what you can stick with and accomplish results in doing. For now I’m talking to those who are busy like me, often overwhelmed with daily tasks like me and need something to use as a connection tool that fits into chaos lest it not get done at all.

Through trial and error I have found some great examples of mindful moments that worked for me. Most mindfulness, I find, is achieved during daily tasks you already do consistently. Examples that work great for me are vacuuming, doing dishes or laundry and cleaning. All of these tasks prior to incorporating mindfulness were very hard for me to enjoy. I would delay everything until I absolutely had no choice but to jump on the task. I found the tasks even more overwhelming and time consuming the longer I waited and this created a vicious cycle of dread. Very soon after leaving my job and deciding to stay at home I became acutely aware of how little time I had. At least during a work day I could look forward to my lunch break to connect and meditate if only for a few minutes. At home I realized there really are no breaks much less guaranteed lunch some days. LOL!!! To motivate myself for doing unenjoyable tasks I decided to use those times for mindfulness. While kids were restrained I would go about cleaning, laundry, etc. and while doing the tasks I would allow my mind to drift off until all that seemed to be working was my hands. In that state I wasn’t stressing about all the other things to do, I was just in the moment watching myself do the chore but found that often I felt more like I was outside my body being fed wonderful energy or insight from Spirit while just letting my body keep moving. This not only allowed the time involved with the chore to fly by but began to transform my home into a more organized, welcoming environment. Over time I also noticed it became habit to drift to the happy place of mindfulness the more consistently I incorporated it into my tasks. I have gained some of my best insight, psychic messages and divinely channeled writings from doing mindfulness in this manner.

Another great example that worked for me was using mindfulness while laying with the kids for nap or bedtime. The idea of letting my kids go to bed on their own and cry it out was tempting at the end of long days but I found it much more rewarding to all in taking a few minutes to lie down with them. I found my presence alone often helped coach them to sleep peacefully while also granting me time to pause in my day as well.  Not only did it help us incorporate bedtime/naptime rituals and scheduling into our lives, but it gave me time to really reconnect in love with my babies after a day of sometimes constant correction and discipline. When laying with them in the midst of silence I found it much easier to pray and connect with Spirit. I use this time now to commune with Spirit by acknowledging all that I’m grateful for, manifesting needs/wants, asking questions or praying for what I seek guidance on or anything else that requires me to actually be present, not drifting like with the other examples I shared. This is just another form of mindfulness that if done even once a day will transform your life and connect you to Spirit.

 

My list could go on and on. For example when I do find time to exercise I choose activities that serve my mindfulness desires best. For me hiking or being in nature period is very grounding and another form of mindfulness. For years I have also embraced martial arts such as Jiu Jitsu, Boxing and Muay Thai. Anytime I am able as a mom of 3 to enjoy these activities, I immediately am able to go the happy place of mindfulness connection.

My examples are just that, examples that worked for me, not the only ways of connecting. I hope they give you ideas to spark your mindful journey but either way I am sure you will find even better choices that work for you. No matter what you choose, just do something!! Start today with a little step and each day build on that until it becomes part of you and subconsciously is fulfilled regardless of how your day goes.

Mindfulness will transform you, release you from negativity and develop a soulful awareness that no one can taint or take from you. The effort to achieve it is on you but the rewards that are showered upon you afterwards can be for all to enjoy. Your family will see the change in you. Relationships will grow healthier. Mindsets will be shift forever and you will find yourself living a more fulfilled existence.

Remember, daily connection is good for our soul and mandatory for evolvement. Spirit will seek you out to help you achieve your goals because the world needs you just as much as your family and daily relationships. However, I have found it much less daunting to seek Spirit out first before they come for me because who knows what energy they are bringing to light the fire under your backside. LOL!!!!

 

Seljalandsfoss, waterfall in Iceland, sunset and sunstar

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When Spirit Shows Up
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So we are all human. We all have the days where if s@#!, d#$*, or f!@$ hasn’t slipped out already it is at least on the tip of our tongues. These are the days we feel least closely to Spirit and more likely to being overcome by our own emotional demise. We feel so disconnected and ungrounded that it seems impossible to serve others if in a moment’s notice someone would request our help in receiving information from Spirit. This type of day will happen to us over and over again. We are spiritual beings surviving a flawed human experience and we will never fully achieve a level of spiritual awareness that can shield us completely until we achieve our soul contract goals and have arrived on the other side. Even then there will be lessons to learn and evolvement to reach. Because of this, it is moments and days like discussed above that I have found to be the most beautiful.

Through many experiences and tests of my ability to be patient, I have learned that we are actually more close to Spirit in moments of weakness and flawed behavior. Emotions as a whole remind us that we are human and negatively encourages ego so much that we don’t feel worthy or available as vessels to take credit for the information we receive from Spirit in states of emotional stress or anger. Often after days or moments like discussed above we sometimes do not even make ourselves available to serve as vessels but when Spirit shows up, like it or not you will always be called upon to serve others needs and relay messages that are needed to heal, help and shed light and love. Surprisingly enough, when we step aside and step up to the plate we are more likely to be the best version of the spiritual vessel we were created to be when we are at our lowest point of human emotion. When ego is ignored and doubt of worthiness is pushed aside, we are more available to serve Spirit, work for Spirit and therefore be open to help and heal others who need to hear what Spirit wants to share through us. We can more purely deliver messages without second guessing ourselves and can get out of our own way enough to be present and focused on the person in need instead of our own needs or preconceived outcomes. Spirit is unconditional love. Spirit knows we will fail sometimes to show compassion, love and patience, but despite our downfalls the calling on our lives and our soul purpose never changes.

It is through much experience with days when I felt too far from Spirit to help anyone, even myself, which I have found I have been called upon most often to serve or give messages to others. Through much patience, faith and a knowing of who I am, I have gathered the strength in weak moments to step up and be open as a vessel to serve in hopes that Spirit would give the person what they needed despite how I felt. These times have been the most amazing experiences in my journey and I can promise you Spirit has never failed the person who needed the message most.

When Spirit shows up, they really show up and nothing you or I do can change that. Actually it’s quite comforting, the realization that to serve Spirit we aren’t expected to be perfect. Even in a flawed state, our connection to the main life source overtakes anything we could possibly try to do on our own. So go ahead and live out these bad days with no regrets. Learn from them, try to embrace improving upon reactions that set days or moments like this off for you, but never, ever, ever second guess your abilities or who you. REMEMBER, when Spirit shows up and calls on you to be a vessel, the message will come and the person you were created to be will shine brighter than any fear of worthiness or perfection. When these moments arise and it’s all over, just show gratitude that we are connected to such a brilliant life source of God/Universal energy that allows us to be flawed without condemnation.

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